Everyone
wants to achieve great heights in his or her life and want to be famous
and rich. There is no such person who does not want to be successful .
But achieving success is not an easy task and it requires a lot of
dedication and hard work and most importantly the determination to
achieve it. Many a times when people fail in life, the first question
that they ask themselves is that what did they do wrong? There are many a
things that makes a successful person different from a failed one which
includes the way of thinking, way of handling different situations,
lifestyle that the person follows and many more factors are there that
contribute in deciding that whether the person will achieve success of
will fail in life
This
article will point out some reasons that people do wrong which
consequently will make them to fail in life and will only leave them
with disappointment and regrets. With the help of this article people
will know about the things that have to be avoided and will thus be able
to achieve great success.
WHAT YOU THINK
Negative
thinking is an important reason why people fail in life. As we all are
aware that optimism and having faith in God are considered as the
important factors that can lead one to success. If a person is not ready
to think positively, then it is very difficult for him or her to
achieve success as all the negative thoughts that the person gets over
shadows the person’s ability to think in a positive way and also prevent
the person to think of new ideas and ways to achieve success. A
pessimistic person is only left with failure which can also lead the
person to depression.
CANS AND CAN’TS
To
achieve success in life, it is very important for everyone to know
about their weak and strong points. By doing so, people can focus on
their strong points and enhance their positive aspects all the more and
also they can work to improve their weak points. But if people are not
aware of their strong and weak sides, then they will never know that
what areas need improvement in their personality. And if the weak and
strong sides of the personality are not looked up and worked upon
properly, then no one can ever achieve success in life. That is the
reason why people fail in life as they do not know what has to be done
to improve their personality, since they are just not aware about the
good and bad or weak and strong qualities of their character.
UNCLEAR GOALS
When
someone is not aware of what he or she wants in life, then how can he
or she will achieve success? To achieve great heights, it is very
important, that one must to that to what height he or she wants to go.
Without setting a goal, there is no point of working hard. If people are
not aware of their purpose in life and what they want to do in life,
then what will they work for. That is why most of the people fail in
life as they have not decided any goal and just keep following other
peoples without using their own brains and understanding their
potential. Sir Isaac Newton did the same and followed his father and
started running his family farm which turned out to be complete failure.
But when he got his goals cleared, he then became a famous Physics
Scholar. Therefore, clearing goals is very important else one will only
get failure.
DISORGANIZED LIFESTYLE
To
achieve anything in life, it is very important that one must first set a
goal in his or her life and then start working to achieve it in an
organized manner. When someone is depressed or is suffering from mental
disorders or when someone’s social and emotional life is completely
cluttered, then that person usually becomes disorganized. That person is
then not able to offer full dedication towards his or her goal. So, it
is very important that disorganization in one’s life have to be taken
care of as soon as possible as it takes away the productive environment
from one’s life in which the person can enhance his or her quality of
life and achieve success. Many people do not know that J.K Rowling was
divorced, unemployed and she was raising her daughter with the help of
Social Security Benefits when she started writing her first Harry Potter
Novel. We see here that if she would have let this disorganized
lifestyle conquer her, she would have never achieved success. Thus, one
should prevent disorganized lifestyle, as it does nothing except leading
one towards failure.
UNREASONABLE FIXED MINDSET
Success
only comes to those who have the ability to adapt themselves according
to the environment and the needs. If a person have a fixed mindset
towards anything, then he or she will never be able to achieve success
as he or she do not possess the ability to modify himself or herself
according to the needs. Having a fixed mindset towards moral values and
principles is a very good thing and everyone should try and adopt it but
if someone has a fixed mind set about old techniques and is not ready
to adopt new ideas and new thinking, then that person can never be
successful. An interesting thing to know is that Walt Disney was
dismissed by a newspaper editor as he was considered to have a fixed
mindset and was believed to have lack of imagination. But Walt Disney
changed that about him and now his ideas and imagination are admired by
every single child. So, in order to achieve success, one must let go of
fixed mindset.
GIVING UP
It
is a very well known saying that God help those who help themselves. If
a person will give up easily without putting in much effort, then God
will also not help him or her achieve what that person wants in life. To
get anything, one must have to work hard for it and that too with full
dedication and determination. Those people who give up early are the
ones who fail in life as they do not trust their capabilities nor do
they have faith in God. Same was the case with Albert Einstein. Most of
the people are not aware that Albert Einstein was not able to speak till
the age of four and could not write till the age of nine. But he did
not give up. If he would have, then we would have never known The Albert
Einstein, the greatest scientist of all times. Thus, one should never
give up, as it only leads to failure.
NO DAILY ROUTINE
Setting
up the goal is only the first step, a lot more has to be done after
that. Success only come to those, who after setting up a goal prepares a
routine and then follow it. Compromising with the pre scheduled routine
can never lead to success. This is also a reason why people fail, as
they do not set up a routine and even if they do, they do not follow it
and thus face time management problems in life which ultimately leads to
failure.
STRESS
Stress
and tension are also the main causes of failure. Every person have
problems which are the main reasons of stress but the important thing is
how capable is the person to deal with it. No person in this world is
devoid of stress but what matters is how to cope up with it. People who
achieve success in life know how to deal with stress. Stress can be
reduced in many like by listening to music, by meditation, by yoga and
many more ways that makes the person happy. Therefore, stress can also
lead to failure, but the people who can deal with it become successful
whereas the others face disappointment in life.
RUNNING BEHIND MONEY
Though
money is an important aspect of everyone’s life but one should never
compromise with his or her moral values to achieve success. All those
people who run behind money will do every possible thing in their hand,
whether good or bad to achieve success. They may even get success, but
that will be only for a short time because there is no shortcut to
success as it can only be achieved with dedication and hard work. And
then at the end, all they get is failure. Thus, running behind money is
also a reason that may lead to failure in life.
LACK OF ENERGY
A
person having more energy will obviously be able to concentrate on work
more efficiently than the one who is physically and mentally weak or
ill. A proper healthy and nutritious diet, exercising daily, listening
to music that is thus maintaining balance with everything will increase
the energy level and thus will keep the person more active and fit. Lack
of any of these things can affect the person’s health and will make the
person weak and infirm. Thus, having less energy will lower the
productivity of the person of doing work more efficiently and
effectively and will thus lead to failure